To celebrate my Cancerian roots, here are 20 songs that have guided and moved me through 26 years. They're like family. Perhaps someday I'll write a book with the full-length stories behind these songs...
"Dim all the Lights": Donna Summer (Bad Girls, 1979)
The quintessential Donna song - begins slow and progresses to an infectious syncopated 4/4 dance beat featuring her trademarked full-bodied belt.
"Let's Stay Together": Tina Turner (Private Dancer, 1984)
Love the Al Green original but Tina's take on the lyrics is more visceral, almost pleading; she penetrates my core on this one!
"Newborn Friend": Seal (Seal, 1994)
Seal's ruminations about life's purpose and how one navigates through the ebb and flow of emotion aligns perfectly with my own endless questioning.
"Hounds of Love": Kate Bush (Hounds of Love, 1985)
A theatrical, dramatic, thoroughly-moving performance by Ms. Bush anchored by a cello rhythm that's played like percussion and chords that mirror her fear about falling in love.
"When You Were Mine": Cyndi Lauper (She's So Unusual, 1983)
In the 20+ years that I've known this song, it's become my favorite from She's So Unusual because it illustrates how Cyndi's impressive vocal range amplifies the emotional punch of any lyrics she sings.
"This Woman's Work"(live): Maxwell (MTV Unplugged, 1997)
Maxwell improves upon the already-perfect Kate Bush original with his amazing falsetto and delicate harp accompaniment; a goosebump experience that brings tears to my eyes.
"Who's that Girl?": Eurythmics (Touch, 1983)
Annie Lennox certainly looked a lot different on the cover of the Touch album (orange crew cut) than in the video of this song (blonde wig) and therein explains my fascination at four years old!
"One Way Or Another": Blondie (Parallel Lines, 1978)
I first saw Debbie Harry perform this song on The Muppet Show and was frightened by the way she prowled the stage, but mesmerized by her beauty.
"I Gotcha": Joe Tex (I Gotcha, 1972)
Bob Fosse choreographed one of my favorite dance routines for this song on Liza Minnelli's 1972 TV special, but the Joe Tex original is the one that sets me moving in my own cut and pasted dance routine.
"Half Moon": Rufus featuring Chaka Khan (Rufusized, 1974)
I thank Mr. Bailey for showing me just how much more there is to Rufus and Chaka than "Tell Me Something Good," exemplified by this spine-tingling track from Rufusized.
"All in Love if Fair": Stevie Wonder (Innervisions, 1973)
My first break up song though, in retrospect, I wasn't breaking up from much at all!
"Walk on By": Dionne Warwick (Make Way for Dionne Warwick, 1964)
No one can touch Dionne's original - this is a perfect song.
"So Far Away": Carole King (Tapestry, 1971)
I hear this song now and I'm transported to Vermont, January 1998, sitting in a room at the Black Locust Inn with no idea of knowing what lay ahead.
"Help Me": Joni Mitchell (Court and Spark, 1973)
Though I love most of Joni's extensive and eclectic catalog, it's the jazzy-pop of this tune (especially the bridge) that stretches the corners of my mouth like a wedge of watermelon.
"Dreams": Fleetwood Mac (Rumours, 1977)
Mick Fleetwood's opening drum bit is classic, Stevie Nicks gives a pleasantly understated performance, and the chorus ranks as my favorite three-part harmony to sing along with.
"Love is Alive": Richie Havens (Wishing Well, 2002)
The incessant strum of Richie's guitar and his sensually smokey voice hypnotizes me like a snake charmer.
"Love & Affection": Joan Armatrading (Joan Armatrading, 1976)
Acoustic guitar, an orchestra, a sax solo, and lyrics detailing the tug of war of conflicting desires - only Joan can mix these ingredients together and serve a delectable meal.
"I'll Fly With You": Gigi D'Agostino (L'Amour Toujours, 2001)
Jess, Eric, and Nicole...this song will forever define my relationship with you during those golden years in Boston.
"Try a Little Tenderness": Otis Redding (Monterey Pop Festival, 1967)
Hearing Otis' live rendition at the Monterey Pop Festival is simply a hair-raising experience.
"Ain't No Mountain High Enough": Diana Ross (Diana Ross, 1970)
Ahhh...the blue print of my soul and the song that introduced me at a very young age to the transcendent power of music.